Love & Lust make the world go round

Just in time for Valentine's Day, welcome to our sixth annual Lust Issue and the fourth annual Live & Lust Poll. Over the years, you've told us about the delineations of love and lust, about your favorite songs to set the mood, the best sex in books and cinema, how you keep sex safe (or sometimes don't), love 'n' lust lessons you'd like to share, and more. This year we asked again — with mostly new questions — and another hundred-plus of you shared still more: details about intimate nooks and crannies of your lives we suspect you otherwise share only with intimate friends, therapists and (as a few exhibitionists admitted) websites where you act out for the world to see. The question we forgot to ask is what we should have asked. But you can send your ideas for Live and Lust Poll V to liveandlust@metrotimes.com.

Love, Lust & Lucre — Have the ups and downs of the economy affected your libido? Quality or quantity in your love life?

For the better

It's made my love life better! It makes me appreciate my mate and that fact that we don't need to go out on the town to have a great time! Date nights have become "go to bed early" nights — yum.

No, sometimes it's the only thing I can count on.

I've been having more sex to kill time.

No. Fuck that. If anything, the economy gives me and my boy an excuse to stay in and have romantic nights at home together more often.

For the worse

My boyfriend has a super crappy $10 per hour job which leaves me, and my really good job, responsible for all of the bills and rent. He is 46 and calls his mom for money. This has put a damper on anything relating to sex, as I have zero respect for him and I no longer view him as a man.

Yes — the cost of a BJ has risen sufficiently. I do not share the same enthusiasm.

Yes. Lost my house and had to move back to mom's. Talk about a damper on a heathy sex life!

No difference

No, I'm single and regardless of the economy I'm almost always in the mood to have sex.

Windfalls and prosperity can be fun, turning things up a bit ... but being in a slump has no affect on my boogie. It's all you've got sometimes.

Mysteries of Eros — Are there some things about love and lust you're still trying to figure out? If the Greek god Eros offered to answer one question, what would yours be?

I'm almost 50 and have the drive of an 18-year-old. Is that normal? —Mr. Happy, straight, 48 years, 5 lifetime partners

Why did lust begin to rule over love in this world? —Minky, bisexual, 48 years, 40 partners

Why can't the sexy, lusty, spark laaaaast? Why does it have to fade? —ShawnaPurrrr, 41 years, 100-plus lifetime partners

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