Savage Love:
Closure and watersports.
By Dan Savage
5/22/2013
Savage Love:
Dressing up as a woman, technical butt-plug question, steal some porn mags, drunk straight girls, spanking someone with consent is sexy, and more
By Dan Savage
5/15/2013
Savage Love:
Call a divorce lawyer, someone has to fuck some sense into ’em, nontransactional sex.
By Dan Savage
5/8/2013
Savage Love:
Get the fuck away from each other, Don’t ask, don’t tell
By Dan Savage
5/1/2013
Savage Love:
Letters from people who don’t really have problems.
By Dan Savage
4/24/2013
Savage Love:
All questions dick, mixing pot and sex, someone else’s sexual fantasies
By Dan Savage
4/17/2013
Savage Love:
God’s wonderful plan of diversity
By Dan Savage
4/10/2013
SAVAGE LOVE:
transsexual fantasies, motorcycle fears, faculty romance, surrogate partner therapy
By Dan Savage
4/3/2013
Savage Love:
Sexual Surrogates
By Dan Savage
3/27/2013
Savage Love:
Gerbiling isn't a thing
By Dan Savage
3/20/2013
Savage Love:
Yes, I am a foot fetishist
By Dan Savage
3/13/2013
Savage Love:
Why your pal chases manly ‘ladies’ when he’s bombed
By Dan Savage
2/27/2013
Savage Love:
Pantsuits, Gay Strip Clubs, cubic zirconia, and shut the fuck up
By Dan Savage
2/20/2013
Savage Love:
It’s time for a gay sex talk
By Dan Savage
2/13/2013
Savage Love:
Untangling what it means to be poly, open and into cuckolding
By Dan Savage
2/6/2013
Savage Love:
Advice on sexy-gift shopping for your valentine
By Dan Savage
1/15/2013
Savage Love:
Quick queries and rapid responses
By Dan Savage
1/2/2013
Savage Love:
Host of queries, and an after-Christmas miracle
By Dan Savage
12/26/2012
Savage Love:
When sex comes a little too close to home
By Dan Savage
12/19/2012
Savage Love:
If unstoppable flatulence meets unmovable object...
By Dan Savage
12/12/2012
Savage Love:
Who says poly isn't an orientation? Dan Savage gets an earful (and this week's column)
By Dan Savage
12/5/2012
Savage Love:
Sorry Mom and Dad: More and more people are deciding to stay single longer
By Dan Savage
11/28/2012
Savage Love:
He wants it right in the jewels, but is it, like, sexual?
By Dan Savage
11/21/2012
Savage Love:
Elation and congratulations over votes in favor of marriage equality
By Dan Savage
11/14/2012
Savage Love:
I want more than hit-and-run oral from my new friend
By Dan Savage
11/7/2012
Savage Love:
Public sex, saline balls and how to handle a cam girl.
By Dan Savage
10/31/2012
Savage Love:
It's not the end of the world. Here's what to tell him.
By Dan Savage
10/24/2012
Savage Love:
Savage gets savaged for advice
By Dan Savage
10/17/2012
Savage Love:
How to find out if your boyfriend is merely troubled by abortion or a
pro-life zealot
By Dan Savage
10/10/2012
Savage Love:
Speedy answers to selected questions from students at Radford University
By Dan Savage
10/3/2012
- Fly the freak flag high
Pride parades? Kinky street fairs? Still relevant?
| 9/26/2012
- Vanilla twist?
My favorite things are on the 'no' list, but is she worth it?
| 9/19/2012
- Better than bananas
Aunt wants to give niece sex books and toys, but wants advice
| 9/12/2012
- Boned at Burning Man?
Is man's burner girlfriend burning him while at Black Rock?
| 9/5/2012
- In dreams
Sexual mishaps while sleeping make for mail
| 8/29/2012
- Do unto others
He gets what he wants. How about a little tongue for her?
| 8/22/2012
- Advice from a crush
Girl has the hots for Tegan and Sara; that's funny, because Dan
happens to have Tegan right here
| 8/15/2012
- Daily questions
While Dan's on vacation, we draw from the Letter of the Day files
| 8/8/2012
- Sex toy etiquette
Tactful house guests won't mention what they find
| 8/1/2012
- Bored by blow jobs
Hubby says hummers are ho-hum, but what's a wife to do?
| 7/18/2012
- Not how she rolls
Wheelchair-bound woman wants a real lover, not a devotee
| 7/11/2012
- Straight talk
Dan handles a few problems — strictly between man and woman!
| 7/3/2012
- Split shifts vs. love life
She’s on days, he’s on nights. How can that work
| 6/27/2012
- Boobs on the brain
Why straight men stare at the pair down there
| 6/20/2012
- Breaking it off
Is it wrong to dump via text after dating for two months?
| 6/13/2012
- BJ and the bear
What to do when your vegan boyfriend sees you make love to the head of
a bearskin rug
| 6/6/2012
- Midnight cowboy blues
Q:
I'm a straight male from Southern California and I really want to be a straight male escort. The problem is the industry is shrouded with deceptive "agencies" that take advantage of the situation. Also, it's not like there's a Male Escort 101 course tha
| 5/30/2012
- Starting out right
Learning the relationship ropes with a little help from Dan
| 5/23/2012
- Fifty Shades of annoyance
At 19 years of marriage, novel stirs up her libido, what about his?
| 5/16/2012
- Screwin' the pooch
Sometimes, you don’t need advice, just the realization that you blew it
| 5/9/2012
- Intended for pleasure
Engaged lovers encounter kinks before trying to tie the knot
| 4/11/2012
- Pussy trouble (not that kind)
What to do when you find your boyfriend stroking himself — and the cat
| 4/4/2012
- Coming of age
Acknowledging when differences in age are hurdles, drawbacks or just plain creepy
| 3/28/2012
- Hotel etiquette if you’re messy
Sheets? Towels? What do you do when you did?
| 3/14/2012
- Gold-star pedophiles
We condemn people who are attracted to kids, but then we don’t offer them help until they act on their attraction
| 3/7/2012
- When threesomes bring out stupidity
What good can come from violated boundaries?
| 2/29/2012
- A kinky game of thrones
Pressure to perform is not a winning gambit
| 2/22/2012
- Short and sweet
Snappy responses to simple questions
| 2/15/2012
- Coming out online
When your closeted friend hits you up online, it’s time for a pat on the back
| 2/8/2012
- Secret service
He said he’d be honest about the kinky online chats, then she found the e-mails
| 2/1/2012
- A question for Callista
Dan wants to know: Why should her faith limit his sexual expression but not her own?
| 1/25/2012
- Our 13-year-old son came out — how can we help?
Ensuring it gets better for a young one, a list of practical steps
| 1/18/2012
- Savaging Santorum
The columnist, the candidate and the definition
| 1/11/2012
- Nonmonogamous couples speak out
A glimpse inside secretly open relationships shows satisfied, loving partners
| 1/4/2012
- Hot for haters
My wife only wants it once a week, so why the guilt trip when I crank it?
| 12/28/2011
- Who's the daddy?
I conceived, but was it my husband or our partner?
| 12/21/2011
- Leaving her behind
Sometimes bitchez be crazy
| 12/14/2011
- Let's get together
My old flame wants some lovin’ — and my husband approves — but could I get burned?
| 12/7/2011
- Stuffed for the holidays
I love dildos in my butt, but I’m leery of putting them in my vagina
| 11/30/2011
- Can't go for that
If I won’t sleep with a MTF straight woman, am I a transphobe?
| 11/23/2011
- He's so shy
My submissive-leaning boyfriend can’t tell me how to dom him
| 11/16/2011
- Smug, not stupid
Little Miss Perfect asks, what did we miss by saving sex until marriage?
| 11/9/2011
- Maid of dishonor?
My fiance's ex won't let their daughter be our flower girl because our maid of honor is an escort
| 11/2/2011
- Takes a licking
All I want is my boyfriend to let me get flogged
| 10/26/2011
- Hot or not?
I'm not attractive, but I want to hold out for a hottie
| 10/19/2011
- Beware: Closet claustrophobia
You don't have to come out, but it's better out here
| 10/12/2011
- Unusual junk
My package problems leave me frustrated and alone
| 10/5/2011
- Evolution and the missing 'o'
The ‘byproduct’ theory suggests women's orgasms are lukewarm leftovers
| 9/28/2011
- Earlabia, pro and con
One person’s promise of bliss is another’s plastic surgery bill
| 9/21/2011
- Probing questions
Some quick questions from a 16-year-old and more
| 9/14/2011
- Me so sensuous!
Why, oh, why does sexual tension always impinge on my innocent little life?
| 9/7/2011
- Honesty first
When going outside monogamy, you should always tell the truth
| 8/31/2011
- Sweaty kid’s stuff
Could we get in trouble selling our son's undies to pervs?
| 8/24/2011
- Sister act
I saw sis on Craigslist, and she needs to be called out
| 8/17/2011
- Working out the kinks
A foot fetishist and more
| 8/10/2011
- Trippin’
Dan's readers send in their most memorable holiday sex stories ever
| 8/3/2011
- I did my bro — am I a ho?
The interesting skinny on the Westermarck Effect
| 7/27/2011
- Monogamish?
Who knows what open relationships lurk beneath a front of respectability
| 7/20/2011
- Hot for Daddy?
| 7/13/2011
- Mr. Softy needs help
Penis problems didn't end with constricting condoms
| 7/6/2011
- Of human bondage
Knotty questions from the tied-down set
| 6/29/2011
- Dr. Feelgood
Should an aspiring doctor risk appearing in a porn scene?
| 6/22/2011
- Quick and dirty
Snappy answers to serious questions
| 6/15/2011
- Holes and poles
Being a man has more to do with whether you have the right junk
| 6/8/2011
- Opening up
The plain truth about nonmonogamy
| 6/1/2011
- Sexy time-outs
When horny couples need to take a break
| 5/25/2011
- Sizing up size queens
Are my equipment requirements out of proportion?
| 5/18/2011
- Tired of hearing 'Woe is queer me'
Yes, many gays are better off today, but here's why we need to keep on pushing
| 5/11/2011
- Unfinished business
A pregnancy scare and a creepy, manipulative ex.
| 5/4/2011
- Playing it safe
Know the basics when it comes to HIV, withdrawal and needle play
| 4/27/2011
- Lacto-freakout
Hubby wants a taste of mother's milk; trouble ensues
| 4/20/2011
- Monogamously correct
Why the fidelity-above-all-else crowd are not 'defenders of marriage'
| 4/13/2011
- Come-ons and turn-offs
Lame pick-up lines and extreme vaginal odor
| 4/6/2011
- Daily mail
The fun stuff you've missed from the Savage Love application
| 3/30/2011
- Service, please
Try his salami before he goes in the Army
| 3/23/2011
- It takes three
Questions about threesomes, the good, the complicated and the bad.
| 3/16/2011
- Couples' night
Therapy issues, a boring lay and a real cheater
| 3/9/2011
- Yes, she's trying to seduce you
Best practices for cougars seeking young males
| 3/2/2011
- One for the ladies
Female readers ask about their equipment issues
| 2/23/2011
- Open that marriage
Better to agree on outside fun than to punish the kids by splitting up
| 2/16/2011
- Dear Ms. Serial Cheater
A compulsive cheater and a lovesick dumpee who goes FWB
| 2/9/2011
- Spare us normals
If you have a low sex drive, please choose an equally unhorny partner
| 2/2/2011
- 'She's twice my age'
May-December's younger member feels pushed away
| 1/26/2011
- Crushes never stop
Just because you're crushing doesn't mean your relationship is troubled
| 1/19/2011
- Third parties
Your boyfriend has a girlfriend - and you don't know her
| 1/12/2011
- It's complicated
Why I must be in charge everywhere but the bedroom
| 1/5/2011
- Just the two of us?
Sometimes monogamy just isn't enough
| 12/29/2010
- All in the family
Mom's a cheater, fam is phobic, and the lowdown on snowballs (not snowballing)
| 12/22/2010
- Feats of clay
Man likes to make it in mud, but wifey is appalled
| 12/15/2010
- A truly flaky fetish
Seriously, wait until lunch is over to peruse this column
| 12/8/2010
- Macho dramas?
To come or not to come? These are the questions
| 12/1/2010
- Loaded answers
Dan pops too many goofballs but still tries to offer advice
| 11/24/2010
- Gray as hell
I just had an awesome date with a hot tranny; but I'm not gay, am I?
| 11/17/2010
- Snappy answers
Dan fields questions that range from good to bad to stupid
| 11/10/2010
- Poly on the downlow
Should we tell my wife's crazy religious parents about our live-in girlfriend?
| 11/3/2010
- Spit or swallow?
He wants a pretty dramatic climax, but she just wants to swallow
| 10/27/2010
- Cruel and selfish
Sexual assault no reason to boff boyfriend and bail on husband
| 10/20/2010
- Christian denial
Hurt and huffy Christer gets a good hosing down
| 10/13/2010
- Getting cuckold feet
Jealous lovers, screaming partners and a noble online project
| 10/6/2010