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The Amelia Dream Project is something of a local supergroup, with members of Ghostlady, Sista Otis, the Questions and many more coming together to tell the rather sweet story of a girl adrift in the world between wake and sleep. "Starboard" has an appropriately dreamy, ambient feel despite the classic rock leanings. "You couldn't get up today," singer Renee Hytinen sings, as the band lays down some awesome indie rock. We will be checking out more.—Brett Callwood

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Savage Love: Closure and watersports. By Dan Savage 5/22/2013
Short takes

Short takes

Savage Love: Dressing up as a woman, technical butt-plug question, steal some porn mags, drunk straight girls, spanking someone with consent is sexy, and more By Dan Savage 5/15/2013
Leave That Bum

Leave That Bum

Savage Love: Call a divorce lawyer, someone has to fuck some sense into ’em, nontransactional sex. By Dan Savage 5/8/2013
She’s Pulled Up Stakes

She’s Pulled Up Stakes

Savage Love: Get the fuck away from each other, Don’t ask, don’t tell By Dan Savage 5/1/2013
No Problem

No Problem

Savage Love: Letters from people who don’t really have problems. By Dan Savage 4/24/2013
Foreskin Foul-Up

Foreskin Foul-Up

Savage Love: All questions dick, mixing pot and sex, someone else’s sexual fantasies By Dan Savage 4/17/2013
The Advice of a Episcopal Bishop Reverend Gene Robinson

The Advice of a Episcopal Bishop Reverend Gene Robinson

Savage Love: God’s wonderful plan of diversity By Dan Savage 4/10/2013
Short cuts

Short cuts

SAVAGE LOVE: transsexual fantasies, motorcycle fears, faculty romance, surrogate partner therapy By Dan Savage 4/3/2013
Virgin bro

Virgin bro

Savage Love: Sexual Surrogates By Dan Savage 3/27/2013
Gerbils? Again?

Gerbils? Again?

Savage Love: Gerbiling isn't a thing By Dan Savage 3/20/2013
Best foot forward

Best foot forward

Savage Love: Yes, I am a foot fetishist By Dan Savage 3/13/2013
Queer goggles

Queer goggles

Savage Love: Why your pal chases manly ‘ladies’ when he’s bombed By Dan Savage 2/27/2013
Built that way?

Built that way?

Savage Love: Pantsuits, Gay Strip Clubs, cubic zirconia, and shut the fuck up By Dan Savage 2/20/2013
Father figures

Father figures

Savage Love: It’s time for a gay sex talk By Dan Savage 2/13/2013
Cuck you

Cuck you

Savage Love: Untangling what it means to be poly, open and into cuckolding By Dan Savage 2/6/2013
Presents for V.D.

Presents for V.D.

Savage Love: Advice on sexy-gift shopping for your valentine By Dan Savage 1/15/2013
Short & Snappy

Short & Snappy

Savage Love: Quick queries and rapid responses By Dan Savage 1/2/2013
Holiday grab bag

Holiday grab bag

Savage Love: Host of queries, and an after-Christmas miracle By Dan Savage 12/26/2012
Family matters

Family matters

Savage Love: When sex comes a little too close to home By Dan Savage 12/19/2012
Plug + gas = Question for Dan

Plug + gas = Question for Dan

Savage Love: If unstoppable flatulence meets unmovable object... By Dan Savage 12/12/2012
Built that way?

Built that way?

Savage Love: Who says poly isn't an orientation? Dan Savage gets an earful (and this week's column) By Dan Savage 12/5/2012
Going it alone

Going it alone

Savage Love: Sorry Mom and Dad: More and more people are deciding to stay single longer By Dan Savage 11/28/2012

Kickin' it

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Joy in the morning

Joy in the morning

Savage Love: Elation and congratulations over votes in favor of marriage equality By Dan Savage 11/14/2012

Bored by blow jobs

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'My 14-year-old is looking at porn!'

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Damn you, Dan!

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Her choice

Savage Love: How to find out if your boyfriend is merely troubled by abortion or a pro-life zealot By Dan Savage 10/10/2012

Quick shots

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  • Fly the freak flag high Pride parades? Kinky street fairs? Still relevant? | 9/26/2012
  • Vanilla twist? My favorite things are on the 'no' list, but is she worth it? | 9/19/2012
  • Better than bananas Aunt wants to give niece sex books and toys, but wants advice | 9/12/2012
  • Boned at Burning Man? Is man's burner girlfriend burning him while at Black Rock? | 9/5/2012
  • In dreams Sexual mishaps while sleeping make for mail | 8/29/2012
  • Do unto others He gets what he wants. How about a little tongue for her? | 8/22/2012
  • Advice from a crush Girl has the hots for Tegan and Sara; that's funny, because Dan happens to have Tegan right here | 8/15/2012
  • Daily questions While Dan's on vacation, we draw from the Letter of the Day files | 8/8/2012
  • Sex toy etiquette Tactful house guests won't mention what they find | 8/1/2012
  • Bored by blow jobs Hubby says hummers are ho-hum, but what's a wife to do? | 7/18/2012
  • Not how she rolls Wheelchair-bound woman wants a real lover, not a devotee | 7/11/2012
  • Straight talk Dan handles a few problems — strictly between man and woman! | 7/3/2012
  • Split shifts vs. love life She’s on days, he’s on nights. How can that work | 6/27/2012
  • Boobs on the brain Why straight men stare at the pair down there | 6/20/2012
  • Breaking it off Is it wrong to dump via text after dating for two months? | 6/13/2012
  • BJ and the bear What to do when your vegan boyfriend sees you make love to the head of a bearskin rug | 6/6/2012
  • Midnight cowboy blues Q:  I'm a straight male from Southern California and I really want to be a straight male escort. The problem is the industry is shrouded with deceptive "agencies" that take advantage of the situation. Also, it's not like there's a Male Escort 101 course tha | 5/30/2012
  • Starting out right Learning the relationship ropes with a little help from Dan | 5/23/2012
  • Fifty Shades of annoyance At 19 years of marriage, novel stirs up her libido, what about his? | 5/16/2012
  • Screwin' the pooch Sometimes, you don’t need advice, just the realization that you blew it | 5/9/2012
  • Intended for pleasure Engaged lovers encounter kinks before trying to tie the knot | 4/11/2012
  • Pussy trouble (not that kind) What to do when you find your boyfriend stroking himself — and the cat | 4/4/2012
  • Coming of age Acknowledging when differences in age are hurdles, drawbacks or just plain creepy | 3/28/2012
  • Hotel etiquette if you’re messy Sheets? Towels? What do you do when you did? | 3/14/2012
  • Gold-star pedophiles We condemn people who are attracted to kids, but then we don’t offer them help until they act on their attraction | 3/7/2012
  • When threesomes bring out stupidity What good can come from violated boundaries? | 2/29/2012
  • A kinky game of thrones Pressure to perform is not a winning gambit | 2/22/2012
  • Short and sweet Snappy responses to simple questions | 2/15/2012
  • Coming out online When your closeted friend hits you up online, it’s time for a pat on the back | 2/8/2012
  • Secret service He said he’d be honest about the kinky online chats, then she found the e-mails | 2/1/2012
  • A question for Callista Dan wants to know: Why should her faith limit his sexual expression but not her own? | 1/25/2012
  • Our 13-year-old son came out — how can we help? Ensuring it gets better for a young one, a list of practical steps | 1/18/2012
  • Savaging Santorum The columnist, the candidate and the definition | 1/11/2012
  • Nonmonogamous couples speak out A glimpse inside secretly open relationships shows satisfied, loving partners | 1/4/2012
  • Hot for haters My wife only wants it once a week, so why the guilt trip when I crank it? | 12/28/2011
  • Who's the daddy? I conceived, but was it my husband or our partner? | 12/21/2011
  • Leaving her behind Sometimes bitchez be crazy | 12/14/2011
  • Let's get together My old flame wants some lovin’ — and my husband approves — but could I get burned? | 12/7/2011
  • Stuffed for the holidays I love dildos in my butt, but I’m leery of putting them in my vagina | 11/30/2011
  • Can't go for that If I won’t sleep with a MTF straight woman, am I a transphobe? | 11/23/2011
  • He's so shy My submissive-leaning boyfriend can’t tell me how to dom him | 11/16/2011
  • Smug, not stupid Little Miss Perfect asks, what did we miss by saving sex until marriage? | 11/9/2011
  • Maid of dishonor? My fiance's ex won't let their daughter be our flower girl because our maid of honor is an escort | 11/2/2011
  • Takes a licking All I want is my boyfriend to let me get flogged | 10/26/2011
  • Hot or not? I'm not attractive, but I want to hold out for a hottie | 10/19/2011
  • Beware: Closet claustrophobia You don't have to come out, but it's better out here | 10/12/2011
  • Unusual junk My package problems leave me frustrated and alone | 10/5/2011
  • Evolution and the missing 'o' The ‘byproduct’ theory suggests women's orgasms are lukewarm leftovers | 9/28/2011
  • Earlabia, pro and con One person’s promise of bliss is another’s plastic surgery bill | 9/21/2011
  • Probing questions Some quick questions from a 16-year-old and more | 9/14/2011
  • Me so sensuous! Why, oh, why does sexual tension always impinge on my innocent little life? | 9/7/2011
  • Honesty first When going outside monogamy, you should always tell the truth | 8/31/2011
  • Sweaty kid’s stuff Could we get in trouble selling our son's undies to pervs? | 8/24/2011
  • Sister act I saw sis on Craigslist, and she needs to be called out | 8/17/2011
  • Working out the kinks A foot fetishist and more | 8/10/2011
  • Trippin’ Dan's readers send in their most memorable holiday sex stories ever | 8/3/2011
  • I did my bro — am I a ho? The interesting skinny on the Westermarck Effect | 7/27/2011
  • Monogamish? Who knows what open relationships lurk beneath a front of respectability | 7/20/2011
  • Hot for Daddy? | 7/13/2011
  • Mr. Softy needs help Penis problems didn't end with constricting condoms | 7/6/2011
  • Of human bondage Knotty questions from the tied-down set | 6/29/2011
  • Dr. Feelgood Should an aspiring doctor risk appearing in a porn scene? | 6/22/2011
  • Quick and dirty Snappy answers to serious questions | 6/15/2011
  • Holes and poles Being a man has more to do with whether you have the right junk | 6/8/2011
  • Opening up The plain truth about nonmonogamy | 6/1/2011
  • Sexy time-outs When horny couples need to take a break | 5/25/2011
  • Sizing up size queens Are my equipment requirements out of proportion? | 5/18/2011
  • Tired of hearing 'Woe is queer me' Yes, many gays are better off today, but here's why we need to keep on pushing | 5/11/2011
  • Unfinished business A pregnancy scare and a creepy, manipulative ex. | 5/4/2011
  • Playing it safe Know the basics when it comes to HIV, withdrawal and needle play | 4/27/2011
  • Lacto-freakout Hubby wants a taste of mother's milk; trouble ensues | 4/20/2011
  • Monogamously correct Why the fidelity-above-all-else crowd are not 'defenders of marriage' | 4/13/2011
  • Come-ons and turn-offs Lame pick-up lines and extreme vaginal odor | 4/6/2011
  • Daily mail The fun stuff you've missed from the Savage Love application | 3/30/2011
  • Service, please Try his salami before he goes in the Army | 3/23/2011
  • It takes three Questions about threesomes, the good, the complicated and the bad. | 3/16/2011
  • Couples' night Therapy issues, a boring lay and a real cheater | 3/9/2011
  • Yes, she's trying to seduce you Best practices for cougars seeking young males | 3/2/2011
  • One for the ladies Female readers ask about their equipment issues | 2/23/2011
  • Open that marriage Better to agree on outside fun than to punish the kids by splitting up | 2/16/2011
  • Dear Ms. Serial Cheater A compulsive cheater and a lovesick dumpee who goes FWB | 2/9/2011
  • Spare us normals If you have a low sex drive, please choose an equally unhorny partner | 2/2/2011
  • 'She's twice my age' May-December's younger member feels pushed away | 1/26/2011
  • Crushes never stop Just because you're crushing doesn't mean your relationship is troubled | 1/19/2011
  • Third parties Your boyfriend has a girlfriend - and you don't know her | 1/12/2011
  • It's complicated Why I must be in charge everywhere but the bedroom | 1/5/2011
  • Just the two of us? Sometimes monogamy just isn't enough | 12/29/2010
  • All in the family Mom's a cheater, fam is phobic, and the lowdown on snowballs (not snowballing) | 12/22/2010
  • Feats of clay Man likes to make it in mud, but wifey is appalled | 12/15/2010
  • A truly flaky fetish Seriously, wait until lunch is over to peruse this column | 12/8/2010
  • Macho dramas? To come or not to come? These are the questions | 12/1/2010
  • Loaded answers Dan pops too many goofballs but still tries to offer advice | 11/24/2010
  • Gray as hell I just had an awesome date with a hot tranny; but I'm not gay, am I? | 11/17/2010
  • Snappy answers Dan fields questions that range from good to bad to stupid | 11/10/2010
  • Poly on the downlow Should we tell my wife's crazy religious parents about our live-in girlfriend? | 11/3/2010
  • Spit or swallow? He wants a pretty dramatic climax, but she just wants to swallow | 10/27/2010
  • Cruel and selfish Sexual assault no reason to boff boyfriend and bail on husband | 10/20/2010
  • Christian denial Hurt and huffy Christer gets a good hosing down | 10/13/2010
  • Getting cuckold feet Jealous lovers, screaming partners and a noble online project | 10/6/2010

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