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Published: February 5, 2014
A: You should tell him that some married people cheat on their spouses, ERR, and that some married cheaters fuck people who wouldn’t fuck ’em if they knew they were married. It’s unfortunate — and it’s unnecessary, as there’s no shortage of people, married and single, who will happily fuck married people.
Then you should tell him that some married couples have open relationships, some have “don’t ask/don’t tell” understandings about outside sex, some married men are into cuckolding, and some people “cheat” because they’re married to “good guys” or “good gals” who have sexually neglected or rejected them. Unless he can depose this woman and her husband, your employee has no way of knowing if this woman’s husband was wronged. But if a wrong has been committed here — if your employee was party to an infidelity — he didn’t knowingly do anything wrong, ERR, so the wrong isn’t his. Nor is it his to right.
He should avoid further contact with this woman — unless he gets an explanation from her that eases his conscience — and he should avoid becoming buds with the husband, however good a guy he might be.
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